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Hi everybody. I have had my five month old female Syrian hamster Nola for about a week and a half now. Originally, I planned to leave her alone for a week before handing her treats and then leaving my palm in the cage, and then petting her. But then the Thursday after we got her, I suspected she had a respiratory illness so I took her to the vet. She was fine, but I had to take out some of her bedding because it was a little dusty, I was able to put some of it back in so her scent wasn’t completely gone. After that, I’ve been leaving her alone except for sitting by her cage some nights. And so far, there’s only been two or three nights I haven’t seen her. I have a cold now and she sleeps in my room so I’m moving her to another room because I heard hamsters can catch our colds, but I’m just worried that all this change might really affect our bonding process and I’m really stressed out about that so I want to know what order I should do things when she’s moved it back into my room which will probably be in like two days since I’m on the mend. She has taken treats for me once before, it was the day after the vet visit. Then the day after she didn’t, but since then I’ve left her alone so that way she could recover from the vet visit. Sometimes when I talk to her, she’ll like stand up and like sniff around the room and then sometimes she’ll just stay asleep. Are we going to be able to bond?
 
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Yes you will be able to bond :-) It's just timing. I think that was a good move, moving her cage to another room if you have a cold. I tend to wear a mask and wash hands at feeding time, if I have something like that. Unless someone else is around to do it. Although washing hands before feeding time is a good idea anyway. She will just keep making her home her own until things progress. You don't need to worry. In my opinion, bonding builds gradually and starts with regular out of cage time, initially in a smaller area, until you can handle her easily, and then a larger area. And consistency. So she builds up trust. She will be fine left alone for a bit. Hope you feel better soon!
 
Does it have to be out of cage bonding? Because to me that involves me trying to like get her out and to me that just seems even more stressful for her. Would it be okay if I just sat by her cage every night and handed her treats and let her climb into my hand after I leave her alone for the next few days?
 
Does it have to be out of cage bonding? Because to me that involves me trying to like get her out and to me that just seems even more stressful for her. Would it be okay if I just sat by her cage every night and handed her treats and let her climb into my hand after I leave her alone for the next few days?
That is fine too, but trying to bond with them in their own territory doesn't work as well as out of their territory. They behave differently out of their territory - but the timing for out of cage time needs to be right. About two weeks after she first came to you. However, if her cage is moved and then moved back again, it might need to wait a bit longer. It is fine handing her treats and talking to her through the cage so she becomes familiar with your voice, scent and presence. It isn't actually stressful having out of cage time, the key is how to get them out without it being stressful. I use a large tube with a smelly treat at the far end (ie my end not the hamster's end), hamster walks in the tube to get the treat, I put my hands over the end and lift the tube out. If then transporting the hamster to say, a bathtub for initial taming/out of cage time, you wouldn't want to carry them a long way in the tube - they can push against your hand and make you jump and there's a risk of taking your hand away or dropping the tube. So then the better way is to have a box on the floor next to the cage and let the hamster out of the tube into the box, then carry them in the box to the bathtub or hamsterproofed area.

Once they are out in the bathtub (maybe a blanket on the bottom of the bathtub, and a tunnel and a couple of hidey places and maybe even a dig box and some treats) they are more interested in that and forget about being out of the cage. They behave completely differently out of the cage to in it. Or you could start with a large storage box as a "taming bin" - set up similarly.

A hamster can be shy and cautious the first time but it's a good place to start with hand feeding so they get used to your hand. Once they get used to it regularly, they can often want to come out and show that. Then they happily hop in the tube/taxi, knowing it means exploring time. Likewise they learn to hop back in the taxi when they want to go back to the cage. That, to me, is one of the most important aspects, "training" them to go in and out of a taxi - so if they ever escape or are free roaming, you can easily get them back - they walk into the offered taxi. It's just a learned habit then. Their natural inclination with tubes and tunnels is to walk into them anyway.

Often after about two weeks they are dead keen to get out of the cage anyway. Some may still hide away a bit or only come out after dark because they haven't had the experience of being out of the cage. Once they have the experience (maybe 2 or 3 times a week at first), then they don't hide away. If that makes sense.

The enclosure is their "territory" and nesting place, but out of the enclosure is exploration, playtime. They have a lot of energy, especially at night, and need a bit more than just wheel running IMO.

Having said all that, dwarf hamsters vary and if it's working for you having her run over your hand in the cage, it's a start. The risk there though is she could run up your arm and jump out!

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thank you! after hearing you explain it that sounds like a good idea. I have a really large cardboard box that I’ll tape up so that way I can spend time with her in that. how long should she spend in it with me?
 
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